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Let Genealogy Help You Find your long lost Invisible Irish

Let Genealogy Help You Find your long lost Invisible Irish Relatives

Invisible relatives may pertain to those people who are difficult to find or are hidden relatives perhaps. A relative can be considered missing if he or she does not appear even in one of the volume of records containing your family’s history. Detailed information of your invisible relative can be hard to uncover. You don’t probably suspect that he or she exists before you begin your research.

You need to know some of the reasons why such things happen.

-Women are most often categorized as invisible relatives. Keep in mind that women didn’t have legal identities of their own in many countries. They are not regularly mentioned in community records. In Ireland, property was rarely registered in the name of a woman from 18th to 19th century. When registration of civil marriages took place in 1865, only the father’s name of both couples is listed.

-If family members disapprove a relationship, thinking that it can bring disgrace to their family, they hide it consciously. For example, a widow who wanted to marry again but her children are all grown up.

-It runs in the tradition of the Irish, they always want to portray the best face and feet forward. They omit sad memories from the tales about their family. Thus, infants and young children who are already dead were never mentioned again.

-Some common records used in genealogy research are incomplete. The contents have entirely missed important things about the person. Maybe, they failed to anticipate that the latest generation would likely want to know about their origins. Some census in the U.S has this problem. Former spouses were never mentioned on the record as well as the date of immigration until 1900.

So, some Irish who are just starting to find their genealogy can face a lot of challenges. It is advisable not to rely much on what they find on the written records. However, any piece of information is important to help you in your research. No matter how small the information is, you can unravel many things once you dig deeper.

Never assume that the norms in the 20th and 21st century made sense 50, 100, or 100 years ago. Try to learn and understand that norms vary according to time and place. Considering all the records (both Irish and American) are helpful in solving the jigsaw puzzles of your life, in case your family already migrated in the U.S. This process is also similar in other countries.

There are factors that you should concentrate on when finding an invisible Irish relative. Checking the census can be effective in finding the persons who are related to the one you are looking for. Another is to learn some significant traditions associated with the place. For example, in Ireland, the naming tradition is very popular. Irish men name their oldest son after their grandfather. If the person is already married, then search for the marriage record. Take note, during the 1860, divorce is not favored in Ireland. So, better check for death records also in case the name changed.

Finally, be patient as your research progresses. After all, it is worthwhile to embrace your origin again and find the missing part of your life.

So Many Dates: How a Timeline Can Help Your Get

So Many Dates: How a Timeline Can Help Your Get Organized

One of the biggest challenges for beginning genealogists is getting organized. When you start, there are millions of different resources at your fingertips, and you may already know a good deal about your family history, at least about the most recent family members. One of the tools you can use to help you organize your information and see your research more clearly is a timeline. These can be simple or advanced, but in either case it is a good way to find gaps in your research.

The most basic type of timeline is the ascendance chart. Simply start with yourself, branching off to the left and the right for your parents, and then branching off again for your grandparents. This type of timeline usually does not include more than five generations, and is most beneficial for older people who want to uncover facts about generations close to themselves who have passed away. Some things to include on your timeline are dates for births, deaths, marriages, religious rights, name changes, retirements, military service, births of children, and moves. You may also wish to include other dates that are significant to your family. The easiest way to do this is by using a color-coding system-blue for marriage, green for births of children, and so forth. Be aware that many things may happen on the same date, so leave ample room to write. For example, your parents may have gotten married the same year you were born and the same year that your grandmother retired and the same year your great-grandfather died. Color-coding helps you keep this information clear.

If you don’t want to attempt this by hand, you can also use a computer to make a timeline. Many software programs are available, but be sure to research the functions of each one before making a purchase, since this can get expensive. Sometimes you can download a trial version from the Internet to get a feel for the program, and this is especially useful to make sure it is a good fit for your needs.

Timelines can help you figure out a lot of things. For instance, if you want to find out the date that your grandfather died, fill in as much other information as you can first. Obviously, that date will be after his last child was born, but if you can’t remember him, then it was before you were born (or at least before you were very old). Information about your grandmother may also determine your grandfather’s death date-did she remarry? Is there a point in her life where she needed to get a job, which might indicate that her spouse passed away? By putting together the pieces of the puzzle, you can then find a range of dates for research. This works not only for deaths, but for all information, so timelines are invaluable.

Grave Discoveries: Visiting Cemeteries to Help you Find your Ancestors

Grave Discoveries: Visiting Cemeteries to Help you Find your Ancestors

If you’ve come to a seemingly dead end in your genealogy research, some places that you might consider visiting are cemeteries. Start with ancestors who lived nearby and who are likely to be buried close to your home-if your local cemetery is fairly small, you can simply spend an afternoon walking though it to search for familiar names. However, at larger cemeteries, you’ll need some help sifting through the hundreds, sometimes thousands of tombstones.

If the cemetery is associated with a church, contact the church secretary or religious leader and ask about their graveyard policies. Some keep a record of everyone buried and plot numbers where you can find these individuals, and they should be happy to share their records with you. On top of gaining information such as birth and death dates about the ancestor you are researching, you may also stumble upon other relatives who are buried in a family plot or names of children, spouses, parents, etc. who held the funeral. Occasionally, churches will even save obituaries or funeral information about their members, and this information can be especially valuable on your hunt for ancestors.

Cemeteries not associated with churches often are run by a committee or the government. Find the name of the contact person and they will be able to help you locate specific plots. Recently, larger cemeteries have begun putting their records onto computers, making it even easier to search surnames and other information. Within a few minutes, they can provide you with a map of the plots and a list of people with a specific surname. Save this list-even if you don’t recognize the names now, you may be able to find a connection in the future.

There are many ways to record information from tombstones. First, you can bring your camera and take a picture of each stone. Remember to be respectful of other visitors-wait until the area is clear before taking a picture, especially if your camera uses a flash. Do not stand straight in front of the stone if this is the case, because the flash will often times shine back and you won’t be able to read the information on the photograph.

Some old stones, however, cannot be adequately photographed. In this case, bring supplies to do a rubbing. Use a brush to remove debris such as dirt and bird droppings from the stone. Next, tape a large piece of paper to the stone, making sure to cover all areas of writing. Use the side of a crayon-a large black one works best-to gently rub over the stone. Your words should appear on the paper, giving you a good record of whatever is written on the stone.

When visiting cemeteries, always use caution, especially when you touch very old stones, so that you do not cause any damage. Also remember that other visitors are there to mourn and remember loved ones, so be polite and quiet while you are searching through the stones for hints to your genealogy.